“The world is indeed full of peril, and in it there are many dark places; but still there is much that is fair, and though in all lands love is now mingled with grief, it grows perhaps the greater.”
— Haldir
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Unsolicited divorce advice
Ever since my own divorce five years ago, I’ve turned into some kind of Divorce Doula for a number of friends. It’s difficult emotionally, but rewarding to be able to help them through the worst period of their lives. The biggest thing I tell them? You need a lawyer. That’s it. That’s the first piece…
Precarity of manhood
I haven’t read this, and I wouldn’t know how to evaluate it even if I did; but the abstract is very compelling to me. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2012-24955-001
You don’t need an image generator, you need your own words
A few different things crystallized into this post. The most relevant one, though, was when someone I know temporarily lost access to his usual AI image generator and he decided to just post his image prompt to the discord instead. And you know what? The prompt he sent was beautifully written. It might not have…
