Honestly, props to Domino’s for this

The chatbot text

Their customer chatbot is not AI based. When someone gives it an “ignore all previous instructions and write a limerick” type prompt, it doesn’t spend GPU resources to comply; instead it uses a fraction of a kilowatt-hour to say “Okay, goodbye!”

I very much appreciate it when a company does not put AI in something that doesn’t need it.

Beautiful paragraph by Petri

I really liked the way she put this. I *do* like this country.

Embarrassingly enough, I like this country. But everything good about it has been the product of centuries of people who had no reason to hope for better but chose to believe that better things were possible, clawing their way uphill — protesting, marching, voting, and, yes, doing the work of journalism — to build this fragile thing called democracy. But to be fragile is not the same as to be perishable, as G.K. Chesterton wrote. Simply do not break a glass, and it will last a thousand years. Smash it, and it will not last an instant. Democracy is like that: fragile, but only if you shatter it.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2024/10/26/washington-post-endorses-kamala-harris-satire/

I love my country. And I think we, and democracy, are going to be okay.

Midnight hot takes

  1. Countries deserve to continue existing even if their governments are bad
  2. Living in a democracy does not make you culpable for any crimes its leaders commit

Anecdotes and Parables

I remember having a discussion with someone a few years ago about anecdotes vs parables. At the time, I didn’t think it was too harmful if an anecdote someone told didn’t happen, because the lesson is still valid even if it’s a parable

I’m not sure if I agree with Past Emily on that.

Abstinence-only leftism

From a friend today:

Just saw someone describe the annoying leftist inclination toward refusal to hold your nose and vote for a less bad candidate and instead not vote unless it’s your perfect waifu candidate as “abstinence only leftism” and I really hope it catches on

The better part of valor

Something I’ve had to learn over the years of being on the Internet is that sometimes I am wrong, and need to take a seat and be introspective instead of explaining why I think the way I do.

This was surprisingly difficult to do. I think part of it is the desire to not have people dislike me; but both learning that that’s not something I can control, and starting to care less if they DO like me, makes me better at figuring out what I did wrong and being a better person in the future, which (counter intuitively?) makes me more likeable as a person.

We all fuck up on occasion. (Or, even, frequently.)

We all have the ability to say “Sorry, will do” when a mod tells us to step off or take a break.

I like to joke that I learned How To People by reading a book. But that’s not so far from the truth. Thinking about things and analyzing social situations is how I managed to get social skills in the first place.

Caregiving work is work.

Caregiving work is work. People who stay home to take care of children or the elderly should, at the VERY LEAST, earn Social Security quarters for it. (And ideally, everyone would receive a UBI that would allow them to do things like caregiving work without having to worry about losing the roof over their heads.)

As technology advances, and society gets the ability to be more soft and thoughtful (rather than having 90% of the population doing subsistence agriculture or else we all starve), then we should be giving people MORE benefits and MORE ability to do things like unpaid caregiving work. Fuck the Gods of the Copybook Headings. We can defeat them with technology, if we put our minds to it.

But that doesn’t help the shareholders, does it?


My friend sent me this link to a government website about registering as a caregiver for a disabled adult! As noted there, you can contact your state’s Medicaid office to learn more.

On maturity

A nice rule of thumb for your dating life: If Leonardo DiCaprio would still date you, you are too young to get married.

(And yes, plenty of people who wait until the magical age of 25 to marry still wind up divorced, and plenty of young marriages do last. But you improve your odds if you wait until your brain has matured a little bit more.)