I’ve been thinking about the Geek Social Fallacies again, and about Ostracizers Are Evil (fallacy #1).
This Reddit post summarizes it pretty well.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AbuseInterrupted/s/syogLYSwkV
It’s not wrong or evil or Just As Bad As The Bullies to ask someone to leave when they are being obnoxious.
People can, and do, learn and change and grow. But they’ve gotta DO those things.
And neurodivergence isn’t really an excuse; sometimes it’s barely even an explanation. Like they say about trauma: trauma isn’t your fault, but healing is your responsibility .
Emilybook 