I think this is a really good explanation of why it’s important to not assume what other people are thinking.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DL9yBL_NJzc/
I used to have a friend who would get SO CONVINCED that other people hated her, based on various indicators. As an outsider to her interactions, my perspective would generally range from “hmm, I don’t think they actually thought anything about you at all” to “I think they were actually sympathetic” to “they’re just in a bad mood, but that doesn’t mean they hate you.”
It’s much better and less exhausting to not assume everyone hates you.
Emilybook 